Breaking Bad Habits Of Failure

Fri, Aug 19, 2011

Creating Positive Change

People living today are extremely lucky. 50 years ago the internet never even existed, and cable TV was something you read about in sci-fi magazines. Now, thanks to the internet, you can find information on virtually anything you want and then some, instantly. You can spend days lost in a sea of information on the internet.

Yet with all this information available to us, people still fail to become successful in life. Why is this? After all, there is so much self help information available telling us how to be successful, but most people still fail to achieve success. And why do people still suffer from depression, when there are so many books telling them how to live a great life?

The fact is, information is not the problem at all. And no matter how much technology advances, people will always have the same problems.

What Are The Reasons People Fail To Achieve Success?

If you ask someone why they never succeeded in what they were trying to do, they will most likely tell you it was someone else’s fault or something happened that was beyond their control. However if you compare that person’s life against someone else’s life, you could probably find many examples of people who suffered under far worse conditions yet still became a success.

This shows us that the real reason people fail is not because of something outside of them, rather the reason lies within.

Internal Reasons for Failure

When you continue to do the same thing over and over again it is called a habit. You are probably familiar with bad habits such as smoking, but are you familiar with the habits of failure or the habits of success.

Creating Habits of Success

Since success or failure is ultimately achieved through the actions you take, habits therefore play a tremendous role in determining whether you will achieve success or failure in life. For example; if you read something every day related to expanding your knowledge that is a habit. As you expand your knowledge of a subject, you will in turn improve the chances you will master and be successful at whatever topic is that you’re reading about. It is a very simple equation.

However, let’s say that instead of reading every day, you prefer to sit down and watch TV for a few hours. Do you think this will help you master any subject? Or become an expert in your field? In all likelihood, the answer is simply “no” it won’t.

So if you look at achieving success or failure in terms of the actions you repeat on a daily basis, then it is quite simple to understand why some people succeed, and others complain of failure. People who are successful continually do things on a daily basis that will increase their chances of success. While unsuccessful people simply do nothing. They would rather point fingers at others and make excuses as to why they are on the path they’re on, instead of actually being a steward of their own life and creating change.

Now… this does not mean successful people never fail, they do. But what they don’t do is give up, because they have developed habits of success. Successful people do not see a failure as simply a failure, they see it as a learning experience of what not to do the next time.

Change Your Habits!

The message you should take away from this article is that in order to experience change in your life you must first identify your habits. Think about what do you do on a daily basis, and ask yourself if those things help you achieve what you want in life?

If the answer is no, you must then change those habits, because by doing the same thing over and over again you will only get the same results over and over again. Let’s be honest… everyone wants or needs to have more money, a better relationship, a better car, or any other luxury in life. The problem is, very few people are actually committed to achieving those needs. Said in a much simpler form: In life, you don’t get what you need, you get what you’re committed to!

The question is… What are you committed to?

To your success,
Mike

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